How are we really doing?
What feels strong between us right now, and where have we started to feel disconnected?
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How do we handle conflict?
What helps each of us feel heard, and what behaviours make disagreement unsafe or unproductive?
What does trust require?
Which actions build trust for us, and are there any unresolved breaches that need honest repair?
What are our expectations?
Which expectations about roles, affection, time and responsibility have we communicated—or merely assumed?
How will we approach money?
What are our beliefs about earning, spending, saving, debt, generosity and financial transparency?
How do we protect intimacy?
What helps each of us experience emotional and physical closeness, safety and affection?
How will we relate to family?
Which boundaries and traditions will help us honour relatives while protecting our relationship?
What future are we building?
Where do we want to be in three to five years, and which shared decisions will move us there?
How can we support personal growth?
What is each person learning, healing or pursuing, and how can the relationship make room for growth?
How will we stay connected?
Which weekly and monthly habits will keep communication, friendship, faith and affection alive?
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